I grew up as a city girl with outdoor roots. I remember taking weekly nature walks with my mother in the vast city parks of Oakland California. My mother also raised me a single mother most of my life until share married my step father who is still in my life to this day. Prior to my step-father coming along I watched my mom work way harder than she should have had to just to give me moments like the opportunity we’ve created at Single Moms Planet for moms to explore the great outdoors with their children. Moments that every parent should be able to expereince.

Roughly 30% of households led by single mothers are subsisting under the poverty line, making single mothers and their children one of the most disadvantaged groups in the country

My mom and I were lucky enough to overcome the odds. But I never forgot what my mother sacrificed to give me the opportunities I have had. And I always knew we as a society could do so much better if single moms were given the resources to reach their full potential.

That’s why I founded Single Moms Planet along with co-founder Cole Patterson back in 2013 as a platform to help single moms help themselves. We do that by giving single moms the financial literacy education, networking opportunities, and affordable childcare they need to build their own thriving business or career. But just as importantly, we aim to provide opportunities for single moms to strengthen their relationship with their kids through meaningful bonding experiences and adventure.

That’s why since 2017, Single Moms Planet has hosted a 3-day camping retreat for moms and their kids every summer at beautiful Catalina Island’s Camp Emerald Bay.

Register by clicking here.

Are camping retreat is one of a kind as we offer land and water activities, including campfire stories, sailing, kayaking, row boats, archery, hiking, and kids playing. But it also includes a financial wellness lunch, networking workshops, and other opportunities for single moms to mingle and foster professional growth.

Enabling single mothers to succeed professionally requires recognition that family never takes a back seat. Giving single moms the tools they need to grow their business and level up their finances means giving them what they need to strengthen their relationship with their kids. As far as Single Moms Planet is concerned, financial success and a healthy, happy family go hand-in-hand.

Our Single Moms & Kids Camping Adventure offers a little slice of paradise where moms and kids can relax, have fun, enjoy a stunning natural setting, and, for the moms, share ideas and work together to bring their business to the next level.

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The 3 day, 2 night adventure will include sailing, kayaking, swimming, snorkeling, stargazing, and a leisurely rowboating experience sponsored by The Boy Scouts. Business-minded Moms will enjoy a Financial Wellness Lunch, our “Moms Get Paid” Retreat & Workshop sponsored by Chase Bank, plus opportunities to talk entrepreneurship, brand development, company expansion and more with business leaders and each other.

This year’s retreat takes place from June 29 – July 1 and is open to moms and their children ages 7-18. Kiddos must be attended by their mother or female guardian at all times. Admission is $500 for a mom and up to 2 children. You can sign up and find additional packages here.

I know as well as anyone that single moms and their kids deserve a little fun! Join me and Single Moms Planet for a few days of outdoor adventures and personal growth in a natural wonderland just 22 miles southwest of Los Angeles. 

I’d love to see you there! 

Register by clicking here.

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The Powerhouse Event Featured Lakers Youth Foundation’s Kiesha Nix, Sports Agent Savannah Foster, Wealth Manager Stasia Washington and Others! Supporters and Donors Attend Single Moms Planet Holiday Fundraiser. (To donate click here.)

Nearly 100 people and luminaries attended the Single Moms Planet Soiree and Fundraiser held on Dec. 7 at Lucid Motors in Beverly Hills.

“I’m very thankful to all of our donors and supporters for making this event so successful,” said Neferteri Plessy, founder of Single Moms Planet, an organization that assists single mothers and their children. “We are thankful to all who attended and our amazing speakers who shared their unique vision and business savvy with our audience.”

“With our current economic climate and the need for community, we wanted the end-of-the-year event to be memorable with the help of our many partners and friends,” said Single Moms Planet Co-Founder Cole Patterson. “As our biggest holiday fundraiser, the Soiree will allow us to share our initiatives for supporting working single moms needing affordable childcare and more.”

 

 

Among those attending were actresses Jessica Hall, Marketa Janska, Elan Carter-Price, Trace Austin, Serria Tawan, and many others. The event also featured live music, food and refreshments provided by Vicey Bites.

The event featured Lakers Youth Foundation Director Kiesha Nix. sports agent Savannah Foster of Athletes First, the number 1 sports agency; and Wealth Manager Stasia Washington of Lido who were part of a panel discussion moderated by attorney/TV personality Jesyka Harris and hosted by Travis Lubinsky, CEO of Flex Watches.

Single Moms Planet was founded by Plessy, media mentor and women in business activist, and Patterson, film director, and beauty educator who is CEO of Cole Skincare For Men. Single Moms Planet is a non-profit organization that provides business and media coaching to working single mothers through a variety of programs, training, and mentorship to assist with financial literacy and generational advancement. The programs directly support working single mothers, ensuring they can provide their children with reliable summer camps and childcare. (To donate click here.)

Single Mom Planet’s holiday fundraising continues online. Those interested in donating may visit SingleMomsPlanet.org to make their donation.

The organization is also set to host the Single Moms Awards in 2024, honoring exceptional single moms for their work and celebrities and business leaders who have contributed to Single Moms Planet’s success in the past year. For sponsorship opportunities, e-mail support@singlemomsplanet.org.

 

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VICE PRESIDENT OF CHARITABLE AFFAIRS AND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF LAKERS YOUTH FOUNDATION

Kiesha Nix oversees and directs programming and funding priorities for the charitable arm of the Los Angeles Lakers. 

Kiesha Doing Business

NFL AGENT AND VICE PRESIDENT OF CLIENT RELATIONS, ATHLETES FIRST

Savannah Foster stands at the forefront of NFL athlete representation. She negotiates player contracts and secures lucrative endorsement deals, shaping the landscape of professional football representation. 

Savannah Doing Business

MANAGING DIRECTOR, SENIOR WEALTH MANAGER FOR LIDO

Stasia Washington is responsible for guiding families, public charities, and 

private foundations on all aspects of financial asset management.

Stasia Doing Business

SMP ADVISORY ATION COUNCIL MEMBER, LAWYER AND INFLUENCER

Jesyka Harris is a fashion model, lawyer, TV host, avid traveler, Mom and human rights advocate based in Los Angeles, California. Jesyka epitomizes the idea that you can “do it all and do it well.

Jesyka Doing Business

CEO OF FLEX WATCHES

Travis Lubinsky a visionary entrepreneur with a diverse skill set and extensive network of business partnerships.

Trav Doing Busness

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As parents, one of our most important roles is to guide our children through life’s challenging​ moments. One such moment in recent history is the tragic events of September 11, 2001,​ commonly known as 9/11. Discussing this sensitive topic with your child is challenging but​ essential for their emotional well-being. In this blog, we’ll explore five ways you can​ speak with your child about 9/11 and provide them with the support they need to navigate these​ complex emotions.

1. Age-Appropriate Communication
The first and most crucial step in discussing 9/11 with your child is considering their age and maturity level. Younger children may not have the emotional capacity to​ comprehend the full extent of the events, while older children may require more detailed information. Here’s how to  adapt your communication:

– For younger children (under 7): Keep the conversation simple and age-appropriate. Use language they can understand and focus on bravery, kindness, and resilience themes. Explain that something sad happened, but people came together to help each other.
– For middle childhood (7-12): Offer a more detailed but simplified version of the events, emphasizing the heroism of first responders and the nation’s unity in the face of adversity. Encourage questions and provide honest but gentle answers.
– For teenagers: Engage in open, candid discussions about 9/11, allowing them to freely express their thoughts and emotions. Encourage critical thinking and help them explore the broader societal implications of the event.

2. Create a Safe and Open Environment
Create a safe and open environment to ensure your child feels comfortable discussing 9/11 with you. Find a quiet and private space where they can freely express their thoughts and emotions. Reassure them that their feelings are valid and their questions are welcome. Please encourage them to share their concerns without fear of judgment or reprisal.

3. Use Open-Ended Questions

Engaging your child in meaningful conversations about 9/11 requires asking open-ended​ questions. Instead of asking yes-or-no questions like, “Are you okay?” or “Did you understand​ everything?” try asking:

– “Can you tell me how you’re feeling about what you heard about 9/11?”
– “What do you think about the way people helped each other during that time?”
– “Is there anything specific you’d like to know or discuss about 9/11?”

Open-ended questions invite your child to express themselves more fully and can lead to more​ profound conversations.

4. Provide Reassurance and Support
Reassurance and emotional support are crucial when discussing traumatic events with your child. Reiterate that they are safe, loved, and cared for. Let them know it’s normal to experience a range of emotions, such as sadness, fear, or confusion. Emphasize that you are there to listen, support, and help them process their feelings.

5. Share Stories of Resilience and Unity
While it’s essential to acknowledge the tragedy of 9/11, it’s equally important to highlight stories​ of resilience, heroism, and unity. Share stories of people coming together, helping each other,​ and rebuilding after the attacks. These stories can inspire hope and demonstrate the strength of​ the human spirit.

Conclusion:
Discussing 9/11 with your child is a challenging but necessary conversation to help them process​ their emotions and understand a significant historical moment. By adapting your communication​ to their age, creating a safe and open environment, asking open-ended questions, providing​ reassurance and support, and sharing stories of resilience, you can guide your child through this​ sensitive topic while promoting their emotional well-being. Remember that every child is​ unique; the key is to be empathetic, patient, and responsive to their needs throughout the​ conversation and beyond.

References:

Article “Talking To Children About Terrorism”: https://911memorial.org/learn/youth-and-families/talking-children-about-terrorism
Article and interview “They Don’t Remeber Their Parents Dying On 9/11. But They’ll Never Forget”– https://www.npr.org/2021/09/05/1031794811/911-children-stories-legacy

About Dr. Wendy Talley:

Dr. Wendy Thelese Talley is an internationally recognized Corporate Wellness Expert with over 22 years of experience in the mental health field. As the Founder and CEO of Thelese Consulting Group, LLC, Dr. Talley has built a reputation as a thought leader in creating Wellness Programs for corporate companies and non-profit organizations, utilizing EAP services and community resources to maximize mental health benefits for employees. With her interactive and informative in-person and webinar training, Dr. Talley provides valuable insights for managers and leaders, in addition to their staff, to cultivate a culture of well-being within their organizations. Dr. Talley also serves as a current board member for Single Moms Planet.

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At Single Moms Planet, we know you care deeply about helping single moms and their families help themselves. And we understand that you want to make sure your contributions have the greatest possible impact not only for those you aim to help but also for your own personal legacy. 

We also know that you probably already have a lot on your plate – balancing your job, being there for your family, getting the bills paid on time, getting food on the table, and so much more. Managing your charitable giving on top of all the other obligations in your busy life is not always a simple task. So we want to help you align your contributions with your broader goals and legacy to ensure you’re getting the most bang for your buck. 

Single Moms Planet pledges to be upfront about how we will use your contributions to provide the biggest impact on single mothers who need your help. If you’re already a monthly contributor to the Giving Tree, we thank you from the bottom of our hearts. And if you are still in the process of planning how to make the most out of your charitable giving, we want to help by offering some resources to maximize the impact and benefits you receive from your donations. Finding the right balance between doing your part to help single mothers in need and all the other components of your legacy is essential! 

Try the free Giving Calculator below to explore how you can get the best tax and financial benefits from your charitable giving. We also encourage you to contact your financial advisor to see how you can achieve the most advantage from doing your part to sustain our critical mission. 

Thank you again for all you do to help single mothers thrive!

We wanted to share this from our friends at Fidelity. 

https://www.fidelitycharitable.org/tools/charitable-tax-savings-calculator.html

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When asking for a flexible schedule, it’s important to be as specific as possible, noting things like hours that can be worked remotely and core office hours.

Work-Life Integration:

When discussing workplace culture, one thing Neha Ruch, founder of Mother Untitled, advises considering is the message of what you can expect as a working mom—an emphasis on work-life integration. “Ask questions that explore their policy towards your day-to-day life, like daycare needs and career paths.”

Seek clarity around a workplace’s attitude towards maternity leave, as well as its mission for creating a culture that works for mothers. This will make it easier to recognize how parenting and healthy work environments fit together.

By getting an idea of what to ask for when negotiating for more flexible working hours, moms can better their prospects for making arrangements more accommodating to family life. You can ask for less working hours or shifts that are more conducive to spending time with your children.  Through proactivity and making room for motherhood in the conversation, the overall result could help shift the cultural conversation on moms and work.

To read the full article and to get more support on creating a healthy work environment as a mother, click here.

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Bonding

Creating relationships does not have to stop at connecting with other single parents and resources. Incorporating time for parent-child interactions, conversing openly, and attending activities together in the home environment can go a long way in creating a solid relationship. Single mothers can act as role models and offer a sense of trust to their children as companions and a parent to their children.

Establishing Connections

Relationships are essential for single mothers and their children. The best ways to form these relationships is by developing connections with other single parents, getting support from specialist services and utilizing local organizations, family services, and community centers that provide essential resources. Additionally, it is advantageous to reach out to fellow parents and exchange stories and resources while finding solutions to overcome difficulties, and other relevant support.

Mentorship

For single mothers, relationships are crucial as they provide physical and emotional support to the child, offer an opportunity to seek advice from other parents, and act as a dynamic support system unique to single parents. Moreover, these relationships are invaluable for the children of single parents, as they offer mentorship, guidance, and care. Single mothers must remember that cultivating relationships is paramount for parenting and establishing a solid family. By connecting with other single parents and taking advantage of the services available in the community, single mothers can create a nurturing and secure home environment for their children and establish lasting relationships that can help keep them motivated and emotionally connected.

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